"We’re being robbed. By bards. I’m as surprised as you are."

Time at my parents’ house

"I meant to do stuff

but, instead I slept a bunch”

she says, and then naps.




do you ever just look at someone’s interpretation of a character and want to gently put your hands on their shoulders, look them kindly in the eyes and say you got it all wrong




name: Rebecca
birthday: July 17 1986
zodiac: Caaaaaaannnnnceeeeerrrrrrrrrr
single or taken: WHY AM I SINGLE?
height: 5’2”, hobbit sized for easy travels to Mordor
eye color: I was once told my eyes were “Baby poop green”
middle name: Thérèse 
favourite color: Teal
lucky number: 12


favourite fictional character: Jet Black, Ted Kord, Roy Harper, Olliver Queen, Jamie Lannister, Captain Motherfucking Sisko
favourite television show: Due South. (I have no shame in this) Also Red Dwarf & Black Books
favourite season: Summer
describe yourself in a few words: Like the 80s threw up a bag of skittles
future children’s names: Rations
meaning of your name: So when I was working at a call center this awesome dude I was on the phone with told me what my name meant like, literally from the old Hebrew. Because I knew Rebecca meant “To Tie, To Bind, Captivating, Strong Combatant” but apparently one of the more literal meanings is Tying a Stubborn or Willful Ass (donkey) or something to that effect. The more you know…
ultimate otp: Roy Harper/Dick Grayson.
what do you plan to/do for a living: I was going to be a professor, but three degrees later I’ve decided fuck it, I’m going to be a hairdresser.
starbucks order: Really super large super strong Black Coffee with like, 8 sugars. I know what I’m about son.


introvert or extrovert: Extroverted in real life, Introverted on the Internet
dawn or dusk: Dusk.
righty or lefty: Riiiiiiight, though I hold my brushes and hairdryer with the left hand sometimes which I guess is weird idk
coffee or tea:
rain or shine: Shine if I’m outside, Rain if I’m inside. Never ever ever snow
reading or writing: It depends on my mood and what I’m writing/reading? Lately I’ve legit been going through academic essay withdraw, please send help.





Friendly reminder ԅ(≖‿≖ԅ) that if you don’t sleep with someone for the sole reason that they’re HIV positive then you ARE being discriminatory towards a human being with a disease and you’re scum of the earth

I like that it ends with “respect people’s feelings” when it literally just says “You should put your own feelings aside”. Honestly, being awful to someone or not being someone’s friend because they have HIV would yeah, kind of make you a bad person, but choosing not to have sex with someone for ANY REASON — especially if it puts you are risk — is totally your own choice and always should be. 

Yes, people have STIs that range from deadly serious to minor inconveniences (herpes and genital warts are on the rise) and the people who have these issues are still people and it doesn’t make them any less worthy of love and sex. But nothing makes you entitled to sex from people who don’t want to have sex with you. Which I think is a lesson a lot of people on this website don’t grasp. 

If someone does not find you sexually attractive for whatever reason, or would not be comfortable having sex with you, THAT IS THEIR RIGHT and you shaming them for it makes you the one in the wrong. 


What you missed on 4x03 of Game of Thrones:





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requested: tom hardy

requested: tom hardy

The best of Tom Hardy 2012 ➝ Beard

Tom Hardy at the ‘Road of Bones’, Siberia in Driven to Extremes

We do love you Tom. We do.

HBO more like HBNO

Um no, HBO. Could you maybe not?

Despite the staggering amount of sex — plenty of which is obviously thrown in for T & A content — added to the show, I think I can count on just my hands the amount of times people have had actual for real consensual sex on screen in the Game of Thrones series (discounting prostitutes because sometimes that consent is murky except with Pod idk?). It’s a disturbing trend, where even scenes that are written in the books as consensual or mentioning the value of consent, whoops nope, just a chance for a few more instances of rape being thrown in as “titillating”, and that is pretty much just gross. Like, actually super gross and it makes me feel gross. 

I shouldn’t be surprised — like, for real does anyone remember the scene with Dany and Drogo’s first time in the books, where he asked her for her consent the whole time for each step and waited until she gave it enthusiastically? Now set this against in the show where it becomes a super uncomfortable rape scene without any agency afforded to her at all — which was the point of why she actually fell in love with him, because he gave her agency for the first time (with the horse which they also don’t go into really either, and also the sex, but the horse too) even if it was in some fucked up ways… 

I’m mad. But yeah no seriously, gross. Gross. 

Becca rambles about her mental illness…

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Do you ever have a problem where you just don’t know how to reply to an argument, not because you don’t know the answer, but you just don’t know where to begin? Like, the foundation of knowledge you’d need to impart to this person before you could even begin to drag them out of their sinkhole of ignorance would cost thousands of dollars if it were coming from a university?